I seemed to have arrived at a destination, not even realizing I was on a trip.  When did things get so dull, tired…routine?  Where’s the pizazz?  Where’s the fun? Why’s everyone so sensitive? What can I do to make it right again?  I force myself to ask a personal question that may seem completely unrelated to the situation, but in reality, can hold the key to returning things to where they should be. This question requires humility, extreme honesty, and a great deal of introspection and willingness to take responsibility.  It holds the power to unlock doors to a happier marriage, a more satisfied spouse, and a life-filled home. What’s it like being married to me?